Have you ever hear someone say: After marriage, I will stop fornicating?
Some say, let me enjoy sex with different partners now that am single because after marriage, I won’t anymore.
The question is: Is MARRIAGE A SEX CONTROL THERAPY??
Change is constant, yet it is the most difficult thing for humans to embrace especially when it involve changing from bad to good. Definitely, if you are addicted to sex as a single, Marriage will not “cure” it. Remember, you have been sleeping with different partners anytime you want. The ball game will change in marriage because, you have only one partner to sleep with. Either your partner will be tired of your incessant sex request, or you will be tired of sleeping with Just one partner.
The notion of using marriage as a sex control is one of the reasons why adultery is on the increase, because after marriage, the urge to sleep with multiple partners still continue. This Urge won’t die because you are putting on a new wedding ring. This was an habit which need to be dealt with from the inside by making a conscious decision and standing by it.. Yes, the Bible says, he that doesn’t want to burn should marry, but it didn’t say, have sex to your satisfaction and then use marriage as a sex control. They are two different things.
Frankly speaking, what ever you want in your marriage, you must do it now as a single. You must prepare for it. Marriage is not a cure for sex. It doesn’t stop adultery. Self Control is the Key, weather single or married. Flesh cannot overcome flesh.
Mind you, this self control ain’t easy to come by, it is not a thing of the flesh. You need to accept Jesus in spirit and in truth before you can exhibit self control. Because, it is one of the fruits of the spirit. The Holy Spirit dwells in those who have given their life to God only. Have you surrender to Jesus??
AMP:Gentleness (meekness, humility), self-control (self-restraint, continence). Against such things there is no law [that can bring a charge]. Gal. 5:23
© Josephine Aremo, September, 2018
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