SEXUAL HEALTH TALK with ABIODUN AREMO
My people are destroyed for lack of knowledge… Hosea 4:6
I can still remember how a young man in his 30’s requested for help from lose of erection.
Due to the increasing sex, sexuality and reproductive dysfunction rocking many marriages, it’s high time we started paying attention to our sexual and reproduction health while single because if you wait in marriage it might become chronic, beyond cure and may result in crisis in marriage.
Many couples get into marriage and get blown away by discoveries which they refuse to pay attention to while single.
This teachings is in series and by God’s grace, as I come on board we will be looking at things we don’t pay attention to while single that ruin sex and sexuality on marriage.
I don’t blame us because we have been made to believe that sex and sexuality issues should not be talked so we all close that area of our life forgetting we are sexual being. Living for sexual purity doesn’t mean you should not consider some disorder in your sexuality.
As a single, you don’t need to indulge in sexual immorality to know your sexuality or discover any disorder, naturally you will discover some and through medical and personal examination .
Today, we shall be looking at lack of erection aka impotence.
An erection occurs when two tubular structures, called the corpora cavernosa, that run the length of the penis, become engorged with venous blood.
Impotence is the inability in a man to achieve erection. Yes, this happens in marriage. Before, I know it to be an old age condition but now it’s affecting even young and single people. That means it’s now an health problem because many things have infiltrated into our sexuality.
Erection is what God worked into man for reproduction (release of sperm) and sexual satisfaction, which when missing, these might become difficult. This has made some wives who don’t have the fear of God and who no longer love their husbands suffering from this to divorce or indulge in adultery.
Based on my research, As a healthy man, erection does not start in marriage. While single; you should have some spontaneous natural erection during the day or at night when you sleep. This is not a sin neither does it make you filthy or guilty, it’s just the way your body services your sexuality to ensure they are not redundant and this also gives you the sign that your sexual organ in respect to erection is okay and if otherwise that might means you need medical attention.
“Erections during sleep or upon waking up are known as nocturnal penile tumescence (NPT). Absence of nocturnal erection is commonly used to distinguish between physical and psychological causes of erectile dysfunction and impotence.”- Wikipedia
Please, dear single brother don’t wait to marriage before treating any malfunction in your erection or sexuality as a whole, start the treatment while single. Imagine your wedding night and you can’t perform or five years into marriage, your erection have gone on permanent leave. God did not intend it to be so.
You don’t need to indulge in sexual immorality, or watch pornography to know if you will have erection or not, as I said earlier; your body does it.
As a single and physically matured brother who wants to marry and you have not been having spontaneous natural erections, you might need to consult a medical Doctor.
Pornography and masturbation are also culprit of lose of erection. Anything that takes erection away from you other than sex with your wife is a potential sex killer in marriage. That’s why you see some struggling with pornography and masturbation can’t sustain erection with their wife because masturbation and pornography have taken it away.
My dear singles, If you are still in bondage of masturbation or pornography, I will strongly advice you let it go now or get ready for a deeper consequence in marriage.
Note: This articles is only for information purposes and not to be taken for a professional advice. You may consult a medical professional if need be and for more information.
© Abiodun Aremo, Sept 2018
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